Aug 31, 2021
Have you ever thought about how
YOU are the common denominator in all the relationships that didn't
work in your life? Speaker and bestselling author Karen Stanley
lifts the box lid and opens this idea to remind us how we must look
inward and take the lessons from the pain and move on stronger from
those exes in your life.
Key points in this episode:
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Know that no matter what hell you've gone through, you can
experience lasting love—starting with yourself.
Karen reminds us that we need to
ask first: How do I respect myself? How do I trust myself? How do I
love myself? Building your self worth first will allow you to
attract someone who will love, cherish, trust and respect you.
✔️ Every
single person who has been in your life teaches you
something. If you focus on
that, you can avoid making the same mistake with the next person
and move forward.
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Self-esteem and confidence often take such a hit because we
tend to play the comparison game with our former partners.
So take notice when the negative
self-talk starts coming in, and recognize when that voice is
creeping in and learn how to combat it.
✔️ Your
personal evolution is beautiful as it is painful.
Reinforcing new beliefs in yourself
doesn't happen overnight. It's a slow, tedious process. Give
yourself grace and compassion, and you will get to the person, the
partner and the life you want by choosing to take the first
courageous steps.
✔️ Your
dreams are put into your heart because they're meant to
be. If you have
trouble believing that what you want to create is impossible, start
journaling and discover how the universe is showing you what
resonates with you in your heart. Your past does not determine your
future, and get clear and put down in writing what you desire.
Connect with Karen Stanley:
Karen Stanley is a marketing executive, professional speaker
and author of the bestselling book Becoming Mrs Stanley. She is
Amazon's #1 new release author and frequently speaks in
self-improvement podcasts.
Her life's experiences
paved the way for Karen to help many others. Learn her
story:
"Hi, I'm Karen! I'm not
a doctor or a psychologist. I was a single mom for a thousand years
(OK, eight), and I finally attracted real love after divorce,
bankruptcy, foreclosure and repossession of my car – while raising
two kids alone.
After struggling with
self-worth and attracting the wrong partner time and time again, I
wondered if I could use similar strategies I used in business to
create a plan to build self-worth — one with easy-to-implement,
actionable steps. So I did, and IT WORKED.
I believe no matter
what hell we've gone through, we can experience lasting
love—starting with ourselves."
Website: https://mrskarenstanley.com/
Instagram: @officialmrskarenstanley
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