Sep 28, 2021
Is dating fatigue getting the
best of you?
In this episode, lean
in and listen to Connell Barrett's journey of self-discovery and
living a life that he loves that started after a divorce. (He
jokingly shares it was over so fast they could have fought for
custody of the wedding cake!) After spending years training with
the world's best relationship and self-development experts and
wisdom from his own experiences, Connell is now on a mission to
help men defeat loneliness and attract their soul mates as their
most authentic, confident selves. He's the founder of Dating
Transformation and author of "Dating Sucks, But You Don't: The
Modern Guy's Guide to Total Confidence, Romantic Connection, and
Finding the Perfect Partner."
Top points you'll discover:
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Lean into who you truly are at your core and take off the
dating mask. There's
one thing we all ask on a date, and it's "how can I get them to
like me?" Connell posits that it's not a good question because the
answer makes you someone who's seeking validation. Instead, ask a
much better question to ask yourself like "HOW CAN I MAKE THIS
PERSON SMILE?" or "how can we connect in a genuine place?" If your
date feels that you see the real them, you have a much better
chance of a fantastic romantic connection.
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Dating during COVID is like the 1890s, and courtship came
back. The pandemic has
drastically changed the dating scene to become slower yet better.
Covid encouraged people to discover emotional intimacy through
communication in finding the perfect partner by listening to each
other a lot more closely and connecting emotionally.
✔️ You
can't connect with someone else unless you connect with your
awesomeness first. Connell
reminds us that as we've been through rough relationships, it is
crucial to hold those truths and build a rock-solid belief system
in yourself — that you are enough! You are attractive! You are a
great catch! Every day, remind yourself that you are valuable and
worthy, and see that your dream person will ABSOLUTELY come for
you.
Connect with
Connell Barrett
Connell is a
Relationship Expert and the Founder and Executive Coach of Dating
Transformation, a relationship consulting business founded in 2017
and based out of New York City. Connell advises clients based on
his A.C.E. Dating System: Authenticity, Clarity, and
Expressiveness. He is also a dating coach with the dating app The
League. His work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, The Oprah
Magazine, and Today.
Website:
datingtransformation.com
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