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What if your divorce was actually a gift? The Divorced Women’s Guide podcast aims to change the conversation around divorce, helping women (and men) start the new best chapter in their lives. After all, divorce can be more than a transition phase, it can be an empowering experience. And through the conversations on the podcast you’ll come away with a new perspective, so you can turn your divorce into the best gift you’ve ever been given.

Mar 30, 2021

How do you know when you’re truly ready to start dating again?

According to dating and relationship expert Bella Gandhi's research, 48% of Americans are single and ready to mingle. That means there’s ample opportunity for finding love after divorce, but before we start swiping right there are a few things to consider.

Working through the internal issues associated with self-worth and divorce are critical for success in your next relationship. There can be a lot of fear with joining the dating world, not only with the possibilities that a new relationship can bring, but managing the responsibilities of technology and safety as well.

In this episode Bella and I discuss the important questions you should ask yourself before downloading that dating app, and how to avoid some of the common mistakes that people make when making their return to the dating scene.

Three Things You’ll Love About This Episode:

  • Figure out how to stop falling into old patterns
    • Bella has some great advice for identifying and stopping the pattern of returning to relationship patterns that no longer serve us, as well as how to embrace the uncomfortability of positive change.
  • Overcome the fears of technology and dating
    • Learn how to share information and market yourself in a way that feels honest, safe, and positive.
  • Identify what to look for in a new love interest
    • Understanding what you want from a relationship is critical for your overall happiness. Listen to the key questions you should ask yourself when looking for a new potential partner.

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Bela Gandhi is a dating/relationship expert, founder of Smart Dating Academy, and a weekly media correspondent.

She is a relationship expert and has been featured on most national/local media outlets.  She launched her Smart Dating Academy in 2009.

Smart Dating Academy has quickly become one of the nation's top date coaching firms - and teaches busy, successful professionals to jump-start& their dating lives successfully. 

Smart Dating Academy is described by its clients “like going to Harvard Business School, but for dating and relationships”.

Instagram: @smartdatingacademy

Twitter: @BelaGandhiLove