Jun 30, 2025
Have you or your spouse ever said, "I didn’t sign up for this"? You're not alone. In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner sits down with licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove to explore the concept of double-edged history—how past trauma, bad choices, and unresolved emotional pain can...
Jun 23, 2025
In today’s episode, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner talk about how to stay cool in the chaos — especially when conflict strikes at home. Learn practical tools to manage your emotions, strengthen your self-regulation, and respond rather than react.
We’re diving deep into emotional intelligence (EQ) from...
Jun 16, 2025
Is it time for coaching—or therapy? 🤔 In this raw and honest conversation, communication expert Nina Rosner teams up with Kyle Hargrove, a licensed professional counselor with 30+ years of experience, to unpack the often-blurry line between coaching and counseling.
They dive into:
✅ How to spot when someone...
Jun 9, 2025
Welcome back to What to Say & How to Say It! Today we’re tackling a surprising truth: your well-meaning help might be damaging your marriage. We’ll show you two simple, powerful tools to avoid that. Take our free marriage assessment at greaterimpact.org to find out if you’re ready to mentor other couples—or if...
Jun 2, 2025
Welcome to What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps you fix your marriage with wisdom and grace. I'm Shy Lewis, here with Nina Roesner, and today we're diving into the Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style—what it looks like, why it happens, and how to respond effectively in a Christian marriage.
🔎 In...