What to Say & How to Say It

Nov 24, 2025

In today’s episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner dive deep into one of the most difficult questions Christian husbands and wives ask:

👉 “Why should I stay married?”

• After the pain…
• After the disappointment…
• After the loneliness…
• After the hope starts to fade…

Is staying...

Nov 17, 2025

Welcome to today’s episode of What to Say and How to Say It, the podcast that helps you fix your marriage and communicate in ways that actually work.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why your early caregiver becomes your first “image of God”
• Why Christians can know Scripture but still struggle to feel loved
• How...

Nov 10, 2025

Ever heard of gray rocking?

It’s a popular communication strategy meant to protect you from toxic people—but when used in your marriage, it can destroy emotional connection and intimacy.

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, Nina Roesner and licensed professional counselor Kyle Hargrove dive into...

Nov 3, 2025

Are you stuck in the mindset of “That’s just the way I am”?

In this episode of What to Say and How to Say It, hosts Shy Lewis and Nina Roesner unpack why so many Christian husbands and wives stay trapped in childhood pain and emotional habits—and how to let God transform them.

💬 Learn how to:

Recognize...