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What to Say & How to Say It


Sep 15, 2025

Are you stuck in a cycle of unforgiveness or resentment? ๐Ÿ˜” You're not alone โ€” but the consequences are deeper than you think.

In this episode of What to Say & How to Say It, Nina Roesner and Shy Lewis dive into the neuroscience of bitterness, exposing how unforgiveness rewires your brain, damages your communication, and even impacts your health, memory, and spiritual life.

 

๐Ÿ’” If youโ€™ve ever:

Replayed past hurts over and over

Felt emotionally drained just thinking of โ€œthat personโ€

Struggled with anxiety, sleeplessness, or depression due to unresolved pain

...this episode is for you.

 

Youโ€™ll learn:

๐Ÿง  What happens in the brain when you're bitter or resentful

๐Ÿ™ Why forgiveness isnโ€™t just biblical โ€” itโ€™s biologically necessary

โค๏ธ How choosing to forgive can literally change your brain chemistry

๐Ÿ’ก How to take back emotional control and walk in peace, joy, and clarity

 

๐ŸŽ Free Resources:

๐Ÿ‘‰ Download our 5 Tools to Stop Walking on Eggshells PDF

๐Ÿ‘‰ Take the free Marriage Assessment

๐Ÿ”— Visit us at GreaterImpact.org

 

๐Ÿ“Œ Question of the Day:

What do you do when your spouse wonโ€™t own their mistakes and denies past harm? We give heartfelt advice for how to move forward in this tough situation.

 

๐Ÿ‘€ Watch next:

๐Ÿ”น How Your Nervous System Affects Your Marriage

๐Ÿ”น The Power of Emotional Regulation in Conflict

๐Ÿ”น Steps to Heal After Betrayal