May 28, 2025
In this episode of the Porn to Purpose podcast, we dive into one of the most important questions a man can ask: “Do I actually have a porn problem?”
I’m joined by Coach Yeadon as we get brutally honest about how porn quietly chips away at your integrity, marriage, energy, and mental clarity—even if it hasn’t “wrecked your life.” If you’ve ever questioned your habit, this one’s for you.
We unpack the real signs of porn addiction, the lies we tell ourselves to minimize it, and the emotional pain we’re often medicating with porn. For most men, porn isn’t the core issue—it’s the symptom.
Whether you’re single, married, spiritual, or just sick of the shame cycle—this episode will help you face the truth and take your first step toward freedom.
Top 10 Show Highlights:
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[00:29] Why we keep asking the same question—and why we’ll keep answering it
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[01:28] “Is porn a problem?” — how that question became the catalyst for change
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[01:58] The moment you start searching is the moment you already know
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[03:13] The truth about compartmentalization and why it’s not helping you
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[04:12] Classic justifications we use: “Every guy does it,” “At least I’m not cheating”
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[05:36] What white-knuckling really looks like—and why it doesn’t work
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[06:04] Why hiding it is a sign it’s a problem, even if it hasn’t “ruined” your life
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[06:42] Buying your own lies: “She knows,” “It’s not that bad,” “It’s just visual”
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[07:43] Key gut-check questions: Have you tried to quit? Have you failed to?
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[08:30+] A call to self-inventory—and why integrity is your true north
Resources Mentioned:
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