Still Faithful: Naming The Pain Without Losing Faith {Eps 118}

Jan 8, 2026

If you’ve ever whispered, “God, what do I do with this grief I can’t even name?” — this episode is for you.

So many parents are trying to stay faithful… while quietly carrying spiritual pain no one else sees.
Grief that doesn’t have a name.
Disappointment that feels “un-Christian” to admit.
Anguish that lingers, even when you’re doing all the “right” things.

In this episode, we talk honestly about the kind of pain that doesn’t fit into neat categories — and the courage it takes to stay when your heart feels like it’s breaking.

What we cover:

• Why unspoken pain doesn’t disappear — it just goes underground

• The difference between doubt and honest faith

• How lament can actually be one of the most faithful things you do

• Naming grief when your child is still alive

• What to pray when you’re too tired for long prayers

• Why your sorrow does not disqualify your faithfulness

Take this with you:
You are not just a parent in pain.
You are a parent in position.
And God is still working in the dark.

Mentioned in this episode:

• Last week’s episode on releasing shame (Ep 1: "It Wasn’t Your Fault")

• Scripture-based reflections on grief and lament

• A simple practice of honest prayer you can begin this week

Resources for you:

1. Morning Worship Text Series (Free)
   This is something I personally use to start many of my weekdays. It’s short, simple, and it grounds my heart before I ask for anything. The time of worship includes a song and Scripture read aloud.
   You’ll get a morning text with a link to worship — you can listen whenever it fits your rhythm.
   Here’s the link: https://sing.theworshipinitiative.com

2. Devotional Recommendation: 
   The Hidden Face of God: Finding the Missing Door to the Father Through Lament by Michael Card
   This book will meet you in the deeper place. If you’re craving more intimacy with the Father — especially when He feels quiet — this is for you.  {This is an affiliate link - it doesn't change anything for you on your end but helps support my ministry if you decide to purchase through this link}

Let’s stay connected:
If today’s episode spoke to you, would you take a moment to share it with someone who’s navigating a similar journey?
You’re not alone — and neither are they.

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