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It's Not About the Alcohol

Aug 11, 2026

You've done a lot of work and you’ve definitely improved. But you're still drinking more than you want. And there’s a critical voice in your head that keeps insisting you should be doing more–working harder and changing faster. This episode explains why the desire to drink won't lift until you deal with...


Aug 4, 2026

You're still drinking more than you should, and you want to know if real change actually is a slow process, or if you’re just making excuses so you don’t have to quit. Here's the honest answer, plus a reliable metric to track so that you can feel more confident about your progress.

What you'll learn:

  • Why your...


Jul 28, 2026

You wake up asking the same question you asked yesterday. What the hell is wrong with me? But you've already decided the answer is that you're drinking is out of control. This episode shows you how the story you keep telling yourself becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy, and gives you three moves to shift your perspective...


Jul 21, 2026

You wake up feeling rough and decide, “I'm not drinking tonight.” For a few hours, that plan feels solid. But evening comes and you pour one anyway. And now your brain has even more evidence that you’re not in control. Which makes you less motivated to try again (because what’s the point?) This episode shows you...


Jul 14, 2026

You've been telling yourself that if you were more disciplined, then you wouldn’t drink as much as you do. But the problem isn't that you need more control. It's that giving yourself permission to relax means that you’re wasting time or falling behind. Which is why you need alcohol. This episode explains...