Aug 26, 2024
"I never learned the word stress until I was 14 years old. And I can guarantee you I was very stressed well before the age of 14." -- Rae
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EPISODE SUMMARY:
In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, host Beth Syverson interviews Rae, whose handle is Adoptee Reclaimed. Rae discusses how being homeschooled from kindergarten through high school in a conservative family led to feelings of isolation and pressure to conform. She highlights the challenges adoptees particularly face in homeschooling, such as the heightened power dynamic between adoptive parents and adoptees, the lack of diverse perspectives in education, and the impact on social skills development.
Rae emphasizes the importance of having additional teachers or group activities to provide different perspectives and social interactions for homeschooled adoptees. She also shares advice for isolated adoptees, encouraging them to be patient with themselves and seek out supportive communities.
Overall, the episode sheds light on the complexities of adoption and homeschooling, urging listeners to engage with adoptees and homeschooling families to better understand and support them. Rae's insights provide valuable perspectives on the intersection of adoption and education, highlighting the need for more awareness and support for adoptees in homeschooling environments.
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RESOURCES:
Rae’s information:
Find Rae as Adoptee Reclaimed on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/adoptee_reclaimed
Find Rae as Adoptee Reclaimed on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/adopteereclaimed
Other resources mentioned in this episode:
Coalition for Responsible Home Education: https://responsiblehomeschooling.org/
Other resources:
APtitude Support Group for Adoptive Parents Facing Adoption’s Challenges: http://UnravelingAdoption.com/APtitude
Other Parents Like Me - http://oplm.com
Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents who have a child struggling with addiction: https://heatherrosscoaching.com/
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Music written and performed by Joseph Nakao
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TIME STAMPS:
00:00:02 - Introduction to Unraveling Adoption
00:01:13 - Introducing Guest, Rae, and Discussion on Homeschooling
00:02:54 - Rae's Experience with Homeschooling and Adoption
00:04:44 - Rae's Initial Thoughts on Homeschooling
00:06:16 - Challenges Faced in Homeschooling
00:08:30 - Impact of Isolation in Homeschooling on Adoptees
00:10:00 - Transition to College and Educational Gaps
00:11:06 - Intersection of Homeschooling and Adoption
00:12:58 - Pressure to Conform in Homeschooling
00:14:31 - Potential for Abuse in Homeschooling
00:15:41 - Educational Gaps and Social Challenges in College
00:17:50 - Emotional Growth and Social Behavior
00:19:44 - Recommendations for Improving Homeschooling for Adoptees
00:22:18 - Ways to Support Adoptees in Isolated Homeschooling Environments
00:26:06 - Advice for Isolated Adoptees
00:28:06 - Conclusion and Contact Information