Jan 6, 2025
"I truly felt the weight of the world telling the story. I felt like it was a great responsibility, but I had to do it." -- Kristal Parke
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EPISODE SUMMARY:
In this episode of Unraveling Adoption, I had the pleasure of speaking with Kristal Parke, a talented filmmaker and adoptee, about her acclaimed documentary, Because She's Adopted. As we kick off 2025, we are excited to offer a replay of our conversation, which dives deep into the complexities of adoption and the personal journey Kristal undertook while creating her film.
Kristal shares her experiences growing up as a Canadian adoptee, her reunion with her birth mother, and her struggles with addiction and identity. We discuss the unique aspects of her story, including the impact of her Indigenous heritage and the challenges she faced in reconnecting with that part of herself. Kristal's film has resonated with many, winning awards and touching the hearts of viewers, including her own family and film crew.
Throughout our conversation, we explore the emotional weight of telling one's story and the healing that comes from vulnerability. Kristal's journey not only highlights the importance of understanding adoption from multiple perspectives but also emphasizes the ongoing impact it has on families and future generations.
Join us for a screening of Because She's Adopted on January 11th, 2025, where you can engage with Kristal and ask questions about her powerful work. This episode is a heartfelt reminder of the complexities of adoption and the importance of sharing our stories. Thank you for listening, and I hope you enjoy this insightful conversation with Kristal Parke.
Join Kristal for an online screening of Because She’s Adopted on January 11, 2025, at 4pm PST / 7pm EST, including a Q&A with Kristal afterwards. More information and tickets are here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/online-screening-of-kristal-parkes-documentary-because-shes-adopted-wqa-tickets-1097838266809?aff=oddtdtcreator
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RESOURCES:
Kristal’s information:
Check our Kristal’s film’s website to keep informed of future events: KristalParke.net
Follow the film at Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61551013663413
Or on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/becauseshesadopted/
Email Kristal at Kristal@BecauseShesAdopted.com
Watch a trailer of the film Because She’s Adopted: https://youtu.be/uCnQPDnxgA0?si=VY6e4ZvgfbyTHzXF
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Timestamps:
00:00:00 - Welcome to Unraveling
Adoption
Introduction to the podcast and host Beth Syverson.
00:01:15 - Introducing Krystal
Parke
Overview of Krystal Park and her film "Because She's Adopted."
00:02:24 - The Impact of the
Film
Krystal shares her hopes for the film and its emotional impact.
00:04:33 - Support from Adoptive
Parents
Discussion on her adoptive parents' reactions to the film.
00:05:06 - Reunion with Birth
Family
Krystal talks about her reunion with her birth mother.
00:06:58 - Exploring Identity and
Gender
The complexities of identity and gender expectations in
adoption.
00:08:19 - Indigenous Heritage
Krystal discusses her Indigenous roots and reconnection
challenges.
00:10:29 - Journey to Manitoba
Details about her significant trip to Manitoba.
00:11:26 - Understanding
Residential Schools
Explanation of the impact of residential schools on Indigenous
peoples.
00:13:09 - The Sixties Scoop
Discussion on the Sixties Scoop and its effects on her birth
mother.
00:14:58 - Reunion Reflections
Reflections on the emotional complexities of her reunion.
00:16:09 - Family Support in
Filmmaking
Importance of family support during the filmmaking process.
00:18:44 - Brothers'
Perspectives
Insights from her brothers about adoption and family dynamics.
00:19:51 - The Role of Humor in
the Film
How humor was used to balance the film's heavy themes.
00:20:45 - Children's
Reactions
Her children's understanding and support for the film.
00:21:51 - Cultural
Connections
Significance of cultural identity for her children.
00:23:44 - Filming Experience
Memorable moments and dynamics of the filming process.
00:26:02 - Personal Growth Through
Filmmaking
Krystal reflects on her growth and understanding of her story.
00:27:43 - Future Aspirations
Discussion on potential future projects and self-discovery.
00:29:34 - Closing Remarks
Beth wraps up the episode and encourages listener engagement.