Jan 26, 2026
There’s a moment that doesn’t get talked about enough.
It comes after you start saying
no.
After you stop over-explaining.
After you stop contorting yourself to keep everyone
comfortable.
At first, it feels powerful. Liberating. Like finally exhaling. Then it gets weird.
You feel untethered. Hollow.
Disoriented.
You...
Jan 14, 2026
Being “easy to be around” is often praised.
But for many of us, it’s not a personality trait. It’s a survival strategy.
In this episode, I talk about the quiet, socially acceptable ways self-abandonment shows up in everyday life, how it slowly drains your energy and clarity, and why guilt appears when you start...