Nov 12, 2025
“My baby went from fussy to lifeless in hours—by the time we reached the PICU, they said he might have had six hours to live.”
In this episode, TikTok Influencer and Medical Mom Marlee
Brandon, a pediatric speech-language pathologist
turned full-time mom, shares the whirlwind diagnosis of her
12-month-old son Bain with Type 1 diabetes and severe DKA, the traumatic hospital stay,
and the everyday advocacy that followed. Raw, practical, and deeply
hopeful.
Emotional clarity: what a Type 1 diagnosis really feels like in infancy
Practical advocacy: scripts, choices, and language that help toddlers cope
System gaps: when even major hospitals say “we’ve never seen this in a baby”
Hope forward: raising a confident kid who knows why care matters
Early signs & ER visit: how “ear infection” symptoms masked T1D in a baby
DKA in plain language: what “acidic blood” means and how PICU treats it
The learning cliff: carb ratios, breastfeeding while dosing insulin, and why it’s OK not to “get it” on day one
Toddler coping: give choices, narrate care, build independence
Rebuilding trust after mistakes: when training/tools aren’t perfect
Finding your people: groups, podcasts, and creators who answer “what now?”
00:00 Meet Marlee (pediatric SLP → motherhood)
01:40 Why speech therapy & pediatrics
03:55 Bain turns one → sudden “ear infection” → nonstop vomiting
06:30 Small-town ER: “He has diabetes” (dismantling stereotypes)
08:35 Life-flight & PICU: severe DKA, hourly sticks, no food for 48 hrs
10:20 Turning the corner: energy returns; the six-hour window
11:22 “I don’t understand this”—carb ratios, nursing, overwhelm
13:05 “We’ve never seen this in a baby” at a major children’s hospital
15:23 Tears → handing tasks to partner → first solo shot
17:20 The Chick-fil-A moment: necessity builds confidence
18:44 Finding community: Facebook groups, YouTube, TikTok
19:55 Narrating care for toddlers—SLP tools that build trust & language
21:19 Offering choices: stickers, shot sites, pushing the button
22:53 Caregiver reality: self-care with very young T1D
24:32 Why daycare felt unsafe: syringe mix-ups & trust
25:54 Joy check: rocks, crafts, and a kid excited by everything
27:56 Best resources for newly diagnosed families
29:52 “Diabetes doesn’t define your life.”
“Type 1 isn’t about weight or diet—my baby was still nursing.”
“They told my husband he probably had six hours to live.”
“I thought I needed nursing school to understand our endo.”
“I won’t chase him with a shot. I explain why—insulin keeps you safe.”
“You can be anything and do anything…and have diabetes.”
Support communities
Diapers & Diabetes (Facebook group for infants/toddlers with T1D)
Related Child Life On Call resources
SupportSpot App (by Child Life On Call)
Procedure guides, coping plans, journals, and parent resources to feel prepared and advocate with confidence