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Mar 27, 2023

Learn about direct and indirect physical abuse and why we often make excuses for our partners and their abuses. How emotional and psychological abuse often are intertwined with physical abuse and its lasting affects on its victims and children who witness it. And learn about gaslighting and reactive abuse. 

 


Mar 20, 2023

This is a hard one to hear, but when we call it like it is, we can see that a lot of the behaviours we have begun to see as "normal" are actually abuse. We are trained to blame ourselves, justify the behaviours, minimize them or believe it's not that bad because "he didn't hit me".

In this episode we cover how sexual...


Mar 15, 2023

We talk a little more about our own experiences facing apologies and forgiveness and how we had to learn new patterns in our relationship. Empty apologies got us nowhere and learning to turn from the behaviours and make active efforts to change helped us to move forward together and rebuild our connections after a...


Mar 6, 2023

Using the analogy of "the boat" Evelyn digs into some of the steps and stages of betrayal recovery and reparations. Pointing out where people often get stuck or hung up and how we can change our focus so we can go further and find healing beyond just stopping the "bad behaviours".