Oct 23, 2021
It’s been 6 weeks since Joey relapsed and moved back to his dad’s house. In this episode, Jan and Beth talk about how they’re dealing with his downward spiral.
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RESOURCES:
And here are some resources for therapy, coaching, and counseling:
Find a Tele-Therapist: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/online-counseling
Miguel Rosell - Guided Core Integration: https://miguelrosell.com/
Heather Ross - Life Coaching for Parents of Addicted Teens: https://heatherrosscoaching.com/
TIME STAMPS:
1:17 The relapse story continues, 6 weeks later
2:13 Keeping a positive connection
4:47 Parents’ reaction to Joey getting caught stealing
6:05 Beth’s dream for society’s support for troubled teens
8:16 “Come, Come, Whoever You Are”
9:44 Safe Home approach v Tough Love approach
10:55 Our parental anxiety during relapse
12:25 Joey’s 2nd traumatic event in one night
13:47 Joey ditched Jan and Beth for pumpkin patch date
16:20 Joey “losing credibility”
19:00 Our advice for parents with kids who relapse
26:25 How Joey’s adoption contributed to his pain
27:20 What Jan and Beth would do differently if they could do it all over
28:05 Joey’s birthday angst
30:00 Some of the signs of trouble that Jan and Beth missed
34:09 Take the spotlight off your kid sometimes
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