Aug 23, 2021
We're talking one of my favorite subjects, I hope that it
rocks your world as much as it did mine.
I call this the manual.
Think about it: You know this very thick manual that you've written
for your ex, have you ever let him see it or read it? Does he know
what he's supposed to do in order to operate himself in your life
post-divorce so that his relationship with you worked correctly?
When I ask this of my clients, I get this perplexed look. The
manual is like a playbook or rulebook on how the other person
should behave, what he should and should not do and a manual is
basically your instruction book that you have written for someone
else.
While that, in and of itself, is not an issue, it's when we are all
tied up in letting our emotional state be dependent on whether this
person follows the rules and expectations you've set in this manual
that he has never even seen.
Today, we let go of the manual. Let's do this together.
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